10 things about our wedding journey - PART 2
There’s always been a debate about a woman changing her name to that of her husbands once married.
My maiden name is Orr and for the most part, I really liked being Jenny Orr. I love my family and I am very proud of my heritage being a first generation Australian with an English mother (Barbara) and a Kiwi father (Bill).
So when Scott proposed it didn’t occur to me that it might be an issue if I wanted to keep my maiden name.
A few weeks after he nervously got down on bended knee, I said to him in passing one day that I was thinking of keeping my maiden name…
His response was short and almost broke my heart, he stopped cold and turned to me with a hurt and angry look on his face and a tremor in his voice and said…
"So what's the point in gettin' married then!?"
Needless to say I decided Jennifer Gifford was actually quite wonderful too and I have never forgotten that no matter how modern or “non-traditional you may think your fiance is he may just surprise you!
JENS TIP - Before making a decision keep them in mind, even when you think it might not be of any importance to them.
For example when trying on wedding gowns and you are asked if you plan to wear a veil.
You might have already decided it’s just not for you, but what if the one & only vision your fiance has in his mind (for his wedding day) is to see you wearing one. More importantly, he may want to be the one and only person who will ever lift a veil off you face to kiss you for the first time as your husband.
It’s just something to be conscious of.